Did you have an engagement ring? What do your wedding rings look like? What did your husband’s rings look like? Were any of the rings engraved?

Did either of your children have imaginary friends when they were growing up? Were they afraid of the boogeyman or the monster under their bed?

What pet name did you use for your kids when they were babies? Did you keep using them as they growing older?

Did you have a nursery prepared when you came home? How was painted or papered? What did the crib look like? Did you hang a mobile over it?

How much weight did you gain during each pregnancy? Was it difficult getting back in shape?

What hospital did you deliver in? Do you remember the ride there or the ride home?

Why did you name your children what you did?

What did your maternity clothes look like? Did you share with your friends? Did you have morning sickness or other problems?

Do you remember telling your husband you were pregnant? Was it a surprise or planned? How did he react? If your parents were alive, how did they react?

Tell about your first apartment or home with your spouses? Were they what you had imagined or were you just making do?

Did you go on honeymoons? Can you describe where you went and what you did? Did you ever take a second one?

How did you get along with your in-laws? What did your parents think about your new fiancé?

What did he say when he asked you to marry him? Where were you? How did you feel and how did you respond? Did he ask your parents first?

Everyone has bad habits. What drove you crazy about each of your husbands?

Did you date much before you married? What was the last relationship you had before you married? How long was it and with whom? Were you happy or sad when it ended? How long did it last? What did you learn from it that helped make your decision to marry your husband?

Who were the big crushes in your life? What movie star did you have one on? What person you never dated or married?

A “Goodnight” from Grandma

Describe your two weddings. Your outfits. Your spouse’s. Were either of your parents there? The bridal party. The church or hall. The reception. Do you remember how you felt? Any other memories about that day.